Indonesia

In a Chinese culture, we are taught from a really young age to be humble. Parents would always be heard complaining about how playful their kids are or how they haven’t worked hard enough at school. For some, it’s even “pantang” (a Malay word meaning taboo or superstition) to praise your babies in front of them because they might grow up being more naughty!

But in praise and recognition, there lies our strength. It’s human nature! We strive harder and we are motivated to do more when we have positive reinforcement. And each of us should share our experience and be recognized so that we may find the strength to do more .

There are those who climb the tallest mountains or who swim in the deepest oceans. There are those who are faced with the struggles of survival and make it though. There are people who are talented beyond words. I don’t belong to the  any of these categories. But I’m blessed and I choose to embrace my blessings and pass the goodness on. It’s not that I always had a smooth life but I do feel that compared to so many others, my personal tribulations are “chicken feet”. And so I want to share my luck and my love to everyone that I meet. Especially those that have less than what we consider to be normal here in Singapore.

I usually don’t share my volunteer exploits on my blog but I was reminded by Aviva ( the company that takes care of all our little important details , the largest insurer in UK and one of the biggest providers of employee benefits and healthcare in Singapore) that we all need to share the goodness in us to others from time to time. So here’s my story.

I volunteered my time to a village school in Bali to teach English. I’m not sure if they benefited more from my English lessons or I gained more from their innocent joy and easy contentment. It wasn’t easy to break the ice at first, especially since there was a slight language and cultural barrier. But once they got used to me, it just got better and better!

It’s amazing how simple things like pencils and empty note books are prized possessions with these village kids. In Singapore, kids would tell you that they want the latest Ben 10 toy or a trip to Disneyland. But these children just want a chance to learn. They want a chance to help their family and to be able to read, write and speak.

I bought a bunch of Disney pencils for my class and I would ask them to choose which character they prefer. And then I realized most of them didn’t care to choose. They would just take any without even thinking because they are simply overjoyed to have a new pencil to write with! This was the case with blank note books as well. The very things we would expect students to have.

And their enthusiasm is absolutely contagious! They are warm and excitable about learning and accepted me as an insider. Outside school times, they would run up to me to greet me and give me high fives! If they see me in the village, they are always all smiling and waving! Even kids that don’t belong in my class would hang around outside my classroom to peek in on the English lessons.

The local village teachers would sit in my class so they could learn more English as well . It was a fantastic sense of achievement when I got every one in my class of 25 to participate fully. Even the shy ones or those who felt that their English was weak.

Am I proud of my achievements with these kids? You bet I am! And I will do it again in a heartbeat. In fact I had considered quitting my day job but I need to consider my current commitments to family and my dogs so for now maybe I can try to work with 3 months stints.

Here’s a video that I did in one of the classes.

Now that you’ve heard my story, let me hear all about yours as well! I want to recognize each and every one of you and your unique stories as much as Aviva wants to. Because you are important and you matter.  It’s easy and you don’t even have to write much! Just a line or two ( of course if you are excited like me and want to share more, go ahead!) on Aviva’s FB page – http://facebook.com/AvivaSingapore

As an added incentive, every week, from now till 28 Nov, the top 3 entries with the most number of ‘Like’s will each win a 64GB iPad with Wi-Fi & 3G! So share your stories and get recognized!

This post concludes the end of my Bali trip posts. It was a fantastic beach break but I’m also always glad to go home. The thought of seeing my 2 dogs again and sleeping in my own bed again always makes me smile.

And as I had mentioned to a couple of you through emails and comments that I had some videos I didn’t post up of Daryl & Sushi’s wedding. I’ve decided to post them here as an encore to their beautiful wedding.

Here’s the video of their 1st dance as a married couple.

And here’s the video of the wild after party in the pool. When at least the starting… lol… cause the everyone joined in shortly after and there wasn’t anyone to take the video!!

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It was one of the last days in Bali and I needed to do a little shopping for souvenirs and little beach dresses so I headed down to Seminyak. I like shopping in this area cause it’s a lot less messy and crowded compared to Kuta and it’s mainly made up of boutiques instead of the street side outfits. There are a lot of very lovely clothes and maxis in the boutiques here but they aren’t cheap at all so I only bought a couple.

For more casual cheap beach wear and trinkets, Kuta & Leigan are the places to go and if you are hoping to bring home a bit of Bali with you… be it paintings or statues or jewelery and furniture, Ubud is the place to shop at.

Tea break was noodles for me. I like Mades  Warung food at Seminyak. You should give them a try if you are in the area… they are popular with both tourists and locals.

I didn’t take much of the shopping but I did take pictures at the pet clothes store when I popped in to buy some toys and outfits for my 2 dogs.

Louis and Emmie can’t follow me on my trips but  do bring them souvenirs wherever I go.

Tanah Lot in Bali has got to be the hottest tourist attraction. Almost everyone that has been to Bali has seen Tanah Lot. In fact I’ve visited Tanah Lot about 4-5 times already (you can view my last trip to Tanah Lot here)and this is considering I tend to rotate around the places I see in different trips.

In fact, on this particular trip I left out Uluwatu Temple (one of my personal faves even though the monkeys there can be scary – last trip photos here) and the Holy Monkey Forest. I also chose to leave out traditional Bali dances like the Barong dance and the Fire dance.

Lots of ducks and chickens around too!

Tanah Lot is an important sea temple in Bali and the name literally means land in the middle of the sea. During high tides, the looks like it is floating in the sea and cannot be accessed. But during low tides, you can walk to the temple to visit. When I was there this time round, the tide was still low enough for me to access the temple itself but the tide was quick rising and each wave came nearer and nearer!

There are quite a number of poisonous sea snakes in the temple which are treated as scared animals because it is said that they are there to protect the temple from evil spirits or harmful humans.

The crashing waves are quite a nice sight… too bad Tanah Lot is always crowded with tourists. Most of them come to view the glorious temple during sunset where it looks the prettiest. You can also head into the temple for some blessings and holy water if you so wish.

For some strange reason that day, while I was getting my photos snapped with my trusty little pocket camera, I had a lot of requests from the locals for pictures with them. I had no idea why they all wanted to take a photo with me but they seem so happy I didn’t know how to say no to them. In fact when they first approached me with the cameras I thought they wanted me to help them take a picture of them!

It started with one family and soon more people started queuing to ask me for pictures…. whipping out their cameras and cell phones. It was just so weird… girls, guys, young ones, older ones… and they were all so thankful and sweet, saying nice things about me. I wonder if it was a case of mistaken identity followed by the ‘monkey see monkey do’ phenomenal.

It was a little like a prize giving ceremony… photos followed by handshakes and thank yous.

Gosh… it was a little embarrassing with more and more people looking so I made a quick break once I got the chance! It’ll be nice to find out that they were just blog readers of renzze.com and spotted me in Bali… but I really don’t think so.

A last parting shot with a chicken before I scooted out of Tanah Lot!

Here’s the video.

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I’m so tired!!! Been running around like a headless chicken recently. I do hope things will get better soon! Busy Busy Busy!

A short post…

Morning fruit juices keep me going… I miss the days where I can wake up to order a fruit juice served right after a morning massage. Anyways I’ll be meeting Melva later for some therapy session so I’ll feel more rejuvenated!

I’ll blog more about Bali soon I promise… but here’s leaving you with Babi Gulling. It’s a traditional Bali dish of suckling pig with lots of spices! If you can take spice then this is a must-try!

Nothing much… except that grilled corn is one of my favorite food on Bali. Anywhere really. But Bali coats theirs with a mixture of spice and honey. Absolutely delicious.

Do try this when you are in Bali. I even have a video of how it’s done!

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I also did a lot of massages while I was in Bali. It was good and I needed the tension released after all my activities!

If you want a good, clean decent frills free massage and don’t really care for ambiance. Then try Inner Glow at Padama Utara st. Ruko Padama Utara No. 15 Legian. It’s near the Bali Niksoma Hotel in Legian. An hour massage is about RP75,000 and their Balinese massage or Lomi Lomi massage is pretty good. You can call (0361)761098 or +62 81 23761977 … I think they’ll provide 2 way transport for additional charges.

If you want something with better ambiance and a more romantic atmosphere then you may want to consider having your massage done in your hotel. Of course it’s usually twice the price.

After one of my massage sessions I had dinner nearby at a Mexican restaurant. I look kinda disheveled here cause all I wanted was to eat and go back to the hotel to bathe and sleep after my massage.

Food here is not bad. But I’m generally not a fan of Mexican food.